fix: only the owner decides who hosts a group, and nobody is made a member unasked

- hub: a node may host a group only if its account owns it or the owner
  approved that node (new `group_hosts`). Membership was the ceiling, and
  every member holds the group key, so any member's node could register as a
  host and be the one clients kept. A node claiming a group it may not host
  is recorded as a request; the owner is notified once and approves or
  refuses it (GET/POST/DELETE /v1/groups/{id}/hosts[/{node_id}]), which
  takes effect on a connected node at once.
- hub: an owner adding a username creates an invitation (new
  `group_invitations`), accepted or declined by the invitee
  (/v1/groups/invitations, /{id}/invitation/accept|decline). Until then the
  group is not listed, not dialled, not searched and not in any token.
  Invitation links, open joins and group creation still make members
  directly: they are the account's own act.
- hub: the MNP token names only the group it is minted for (group_id is now
  required), so a node operator no longer learns a member's other groups.
- SPA: invitations on the home page; invited people and host requests in
  the group's settings; the transport sends group_id. Ten catalogues.
- Browser probes for both screens, run in Chrome and Firefox.
- Design §5.2, §7.2, §7.3, AV32, AV33; protocol §6.3; user guide.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

1 files changed, 2 insertions, 1 deletions

diff --git a/packages/meshbay-hub/src/meshbay_hub/mail.py b/packages/meshbay-hub/src/meshbay_hub/mail.py
index b382849..6980da9 100644
--- a/packages/meshbay-hub/src/meshbay_hub/mail.py
+++ b/packages/meshbay-hub/src/meshbay_hub/mail.py
@@ -443,7 +443,8 @@ def send_invite_notification(
         "\n"
         f"Your one-time code is: {code}\n"
         "\n"
-        "Open the group and enter this code when prompted.\n"
+        "Accept the invitation on your MeshBay home page, then open the group\n"
+        "and enter this code when prompted.\n"
         "The code works once and expires in 7 days.\n"
         "\n"
         f"{_hub_url}\n"