fix(node): make WebRTC STUN fallback actually use every configured server

aiortc's connection_kwargs() keeps only the first STUN URI from
RTCConfiguration.iceServers ("only a single STUN server is supported"),
and aioice.ice.Connection has a single stun_server field. So the node's
four default STUN servers -- and anything added on the Node page or with
`meshbay-node stun add` -- collapsed to stun:stun.l.google.com:19302. When
that one server was slow or unreachable from the node, ICE gathering
(get_component_candidates, timeout=5) burned its full 5 s with no
server-reflexive candidate, adding seconds to every browser connection.
The multi-server fallback of draft-v6 s2.12 was configuration only.

transport/stun_multi patches aioice.ice.server_reflexive_candidate (same
monkey-patch technique ice_filter.py uses on get_host_addresses) so a
single ICE gather races the STUN binding request against every configured
server on the one bound socket and takes the first answer. One reachable
server anywhere in the list now yields a reflexive candidate in one RTT.

- daemon: install_stun_multi() alongside install_ice_filter()
- ops.set_node_settings: push the list to stun_multi.set_servers() so the
  CLI / Node-page hot-swap takes effect without a restart
- webrtc_server.handle_offer: log ICE gather time and srflx count
- test_stun_multi.py: fan-out, first-answer-wins, all-fail, empty-list
  fallback, DNS failure

Verified end to end with a real RTCPeerConnection: with a black-hole STUN
server first in the list, gathering still completes in ~0.07 s with full
srflx candidates (previously a 5 s stall).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01BSsQhfxEAhwi4nqc4hASmq

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+"""
+Make the node actually use every configured STUN server, not just the first.
+
+`aiortc` accepts a list in `RTCConfiguration.iceServers` but keeps **only the
+first** STUN URI (`connection_kwargs`: *"only a single STUN server is
+supported"*), and `aioice.ice.Connection` has a single `stun_server` field.  So
+the four defaults in `config.DEFAULT_STUN_SERVERS` — and anything the operator
+adds on the Node page or with `meshbay-node stun add` — collapsed to
+`stun:stun.l.google.com:19302` on the node side.  When that one server was slow
+or unreachable from the node's network, `get_component_candidates` burned its
+full 5 s timeout with no server-reflexive candidate to show for it, adding
+seconds to every browser connection.  The "fallback" was configuration only.
+
+This module patches `aioice.ice.server_reflexive_candidate` — the same
+monkey-patch technique `ice_filter.py` uses on `get_host_addresses` — so a
+single ICE gather races the STUN binding request against **all** configured
+servers on the one bound socket and takes the first answer.  One reachable
+server anywhere in the list now yields a reflexive candidate in one RTT instead
+of a 5 s stall.
+
+  install(["stun:a:3478", "stun:b:19302"])   → patch + set the list
+  set_servers([...])                          → update the list live (CLI / panel)
+  set_servers([]) / install(None)             → no fan-out; behave exactly like
+                                                upstream with whatever single
+                                                server aiortc passed
+"""
+
+import asyncio
+import logging
+import socket
+
+import aioice.ice as _ice
+
+log = logging.getLogger(__name__)
+
+# Slightly under aioice's own `get_component_candidates(timeout=5)` so that when
+# every server is unreachable we raise (→ no srflx candidate, same as today)
+# just before the outer wait cancels us, rather than at the same instant.
+_QUERY_TIMEOUT = 4.0
+
+_servers: list[tuple[str, int]] = []
+_installed = False
+_original = _ice.server_reflexive_candidate
+
+
+def _parse(url: str) -> tuple[str, int]:
+    """`stun:host:port` / `stun:host` → (host, port). Default port 3478 (RFC 7064)."""
+    rest = url[5:] if url.startswith("stun:") else url
+    rest = rest.split("?", 1)[0].strip()          # drop any ?transport=... tail
+    if not rest:
+        raise ValueError(f"empty STUN host in {url!r}")
+    host, sep, port = rest.rpartition(":")
+    if sep and host and port.isdigit():
+        return host, int(port)
+    return rest, 3478
+
+
+async def _query_one(protocol, addr: tuple[str, int]):
+    # A fresh Message per call: StunProtocol.request asserts the transaction id
+    # is not already registered, and each Message gets a random id at build time.
+    request = _ice.stun.Message(
+        message_method=_ice.stun.Method.BINDING,
+        message_class=_ice.stun.Class.REQUEST,
+    )
+    response, _addr = await protocol.request(request, addr)
+    return response
+
+
+async def _first_ok(tasks: list[asyncio.Task]):
+    """First task that returns without raising wins; if all raise, re-raise the last."""
+    pending = set(tasks)
+    last_exc: BaseException | None = None
+    while pending:
+        done, pending = await asyncio.wait(
+            pending, return_when=asyncio.FIRST_COMPLETED)
+        for task in done:
+            exc = task.exception()
+            if exc is None:
+                return task.result()
+            last_exc = exc
+    raise last_exc if last_exc is not None else RuntimeError("no STUN query ran")
+
+
+async def _fanout_server_reflexive_candidate(protocol, stun_server):
+    """Drop-in for aioice.ice.server_reflexive_candidate that tries every server."""
+    targets = list(_servers) if _servers else [tuple(stun_server)]
+
+    loop = asyncio.get_event_loop()
+
+    async def _resolve(host: str, port: int):
+        return (await loop.run_in_executor(None, socket.gethostbyname, host), port)
+
+    resolved: list[tuple[str, int]] = []
+    for res in await asyncio.gather(
+        *(_resolve(h, p) for h, p in targets), return_exceptions=True
+    ):
+        if isinstance(res, BaseException):
+            log.debug("STUN resolve failed: %s", res)
+        else:
+            resolved.append(res)
+    if not resolved:
+        raise OSError("no configured STUN server could be resolved")
+
+    query_tasks = [asyncio.ensure_future(_query_one(protocol, a)) for a in resolved]
+    try:
+        response = await asyncio.wait_for(_first_ok(query_tasks), _QUERY_TIMEOUT)
+    finally:
+        for task in query_tasks:
+            task.cancel()
+        await asyncio.gather(*query_tasks, return_exceptions=True)
+
+    local = protocol.local_candidate
+    return _ice.Candidate(
+        foundation=_ice.candidate_foundation("srflx", "udp", local.host),
+        component=local.component,
+        transport=local.transport,
+        priority=_ice.candidate_priority(local.component, "srflx"),
+        host=response.attributes["XOR-MAPPED-ADDRESS"][0],
+        port=response.attributes["XOR-MAPPED-ADDRESS"][1],
+        type="srflx",
+        related_address=local.host,
+        related_port=local.port,
+    ), None
+
+
+def set_servers(stun_urls: list[str] | None) -> None:
+    """Replace the fan-out server list. Safe to call before or after install()."""
+    global _servers
+    parsed: list[tuple[str, int]] = []
+    for url in stun_urls or []:
+        try:
+            parsed.append(_parse(str(url)))
+        except ValueError:
+            log.warning("Ignoring malformed STUN URL: %r", url)
+    _servers = parsed
+    if _installed:
+        log.info("STUN fan-out list: %s",
+                 ", ".join(f"{h}:{p}" for h, p in parsed) or "(none)")
+
+
+def install(stun_urls: list[str] | None) -> None:
+    """Monkey-patch aioice so an ICE gather queries every configured STUN server."""
+    global _installed
+    set_servers(stun_urls)
+    if not _installed:
+        _ice.server_reflexive_candidate = _fanout_server_reflexive_candidate
+        _installed = True
+        log.info("STUN multi-server fan-out installed (%d servers)", len(_servers))