fix(node): remove --upload-dir rather than document it

Caught in review, and the review was right. The previous commit documented the
flag as deprecated so that `--help` and the man page would agree. That solved
the wrong problem: the flag contradicts the model this whole refactor exists to
establish, and the coherent answer was to delete it.

It wrote `upload_dir` into a *brand-new* `[[groups]]` block, and
`GroupConfig.__post_init__` reads that key by forcing every other root
read-only and appending that path as the one writable one. So
`group add --dir X --writable --upload-dir Y` silently made X read-only — two
mechanisms deciding which directories accept uploads, one of them invisible, in
a group created after the model that replaced it.

Gone from the CLI, from `ops.attach_group`, from the loopback API and from the
MNP `group_attach` payload, which now carries `writable` instead. The *read*
path in `config.py` is deliberately untouched: an existing node.toml using
`upload_dir` must keep working, and that is the only legitimate use left. The
man page says so under the config key, and no longer lists an option.

The test that guarded the deprecation wording now guards its absence — and
earned itself immediately by finding a `group add` usage string still offering
the flag.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_011pvMdvLBG92jyhvD5pD6us

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diff --git a/packages/meshbay-node/src/meshbay_node/ui/app.py b/packages/meshbay-node/src/meshbay_node/ui/app.py
index 130c59e..fc6c04a 100644
--- a/packages/meshbay-node/src/meshbay_node/ui/app.py
+++ b/packages/meshbay-node/src/meshbay_node/ui/app.py
@@ -175,7 +175,6 @@ def create_ui_app(state: dict) -> FastAPI:
             state,
             (payload.get("name") or "").strip(),
             (payload.get("shared_dir") or "").strip(),
-            upload_dir=(payload.get("upload_dir") or "").strip(),
             writable=bool(payload.get("writable", True)),
         ))
         reload_fn = state.get("reload_fn")