fix(win): graceful shutdown, one startup-mode control, and a stray-\r bug

Windows-only changes, all found by actually running the previous session's
work rather than by review alone:

- CTRL_CLOSE_EVENT/LOGOFF/SHUTDOWN handler (platform.py, ctypes
  SetConsoleCtrlHandler) so closing a console window, signing off, or a
  system shutdown runs the daemon's real _shutdown() instead of Windows
  just ending the process — closing WebRTC sessions and any in-flight
  ffmpeg transcode instead of orphaning it. `taskkill /F` itself stays
  uncatchable (like SIGKILL), so autostart_run() now spawns with
  CREATE_NEW_PROCESS_GROUP instead of DETACHED_PROCESS and autostart_end()
  tries CTRL_BREAK_EVENT against the recorded pid first, falling back to
  the hard kill only if that doesn't stop it in time.

- Replaced the Node page's two independent autostart/service-mode toggles
  with one "start automatically" select (off / at sign-in / as a
  background service). The old pair let both be active at once — starting
  the daemon twice, at boot and at sign-in — and their layout broke
  wrapping inside .node-service's flex row. The new control always removes
  whichever mechanism is active before installing the target; platform.py's
  service_install() does the same on the CLI side. The "background
  service" option disables itself (with a hint pointing at the CLI) when
  running unpackaged, since service-mode.ps1/service.ps1/firewall.ps1 all
  assume an installed build's layout — verified live rather than assumed
  by actually running those scripts unelevated.

- findNodeBinary() no longer bakes a stray \r into resolved paths. Found by
  rebooting after enabling per-user autostart: where.exe listed two
  matches, and stdout.trim().split('\n')[0] only strips the whole string's
  ends, leaving line one's own trailing \r attached — which landed inside
  the Startup .vbs's quoted path and broke it with "Unterminated string
  constant" at boot. Fixed by splitting on \r?\n and trimming every line.

- Dependency audit for the Windows installer (docs/WINDOWS-PORT.md): no
  VC++ Redistributable needed, confirmed by inspecting the built
  node-runtime's actual import table rather than assuming. New
  docs/windows-build.md: a concise clone-to-installer build guide.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

1 files changed, 6 insertions, 4 deletions

diff --git a/packages/meshbay-hub/src/meshbay_hub/static/locales/zh-CN.js b/packages/meshbay-hub/src/meshbay_hub/static/locales/zh-CN.js
index 299dc4f..d67c34b 100644
--- a/packages/meshbay-hub/src/meshbay_hub/static/locales/zh-CN.js
+++ b/packages/meshbay-hub/src/meshbay_hub/static/locales/zh-CN.js
@@ -651,11 +651,13 @@ export default {
   'node.service_stopping': '正在停止…',
   'node.service_restart': '重启',
   'node.service_restarting': '正在重启…',
-  'node.autostart_label': '登录时自动启动',
-  'node.autostart_updating': '正在更新…',
   'node.service_mode_hint': '以后台服务方式运行 — 在开机时启动，早于登录。',
-  'node.service_mode_label': '以后台服务方式运行（在开机时启动，早于登录）',
-  'node.service_mode_updating': '正在切换模式 — 请留意管理员权限提示…',
+  'node.startup_mode_label': '自动启动：',
+  'node.startup_mode_off': '关闭（手动启动）',
+  'node.startup_mode_signin': '登录时',
+  'node.startup_mode_service': '作为后台服务（开机时启动）',
+  'node.startup_mode_updating': '正在切换模式 — 请留意管理员权限提示…',
+  'node.startup_mode_service_unavailable_hint': '后台服务模式需要已安装的版本。如需本地测试，请在具有管理员权限的 PowerShell 中运行 "meshbay-node service install"。',
   'node.not_operator': '无法连接到您的 node。请确保它正在运行。',
   'node.offline': 'Node 已离线',
   'node.retry': '重试',